To you, 2
Of all the things I’d have to share with you, this may or may not be the most important overall, but I consider it the most crucial given the circumstances and with reference to them, and that’s why we’re here now, you and me and this. Should ever life, due in whole or in part to the fallout of what I sketch here, end up being too short to communicate to you all I wish, and I had to select only the most important and throw everything else into oblivion, well, here it is.
There are things for you to know here, so please don't think you already know. Devil is in the details, they say, so don't think you know until you get those details at your fingertips. If you look at them through the veil of your current certainties you won't do a fingertip search, and you will remain falsely convinced that you know instead. So you won't make any progress.
Tell me what you don’t understand, I’ll tell you want you don’t know; tell me what you don’t know, I’ll tell you what traps you fall into.
In my view, in our languages there is a misleading misunderstanding: that “I don’t understand” means “I’m the one that doesn’t get it”. That is, “the problem is me: I have my limits”.
That it depends on you it’s true, but not in that sense; clearing up this misunderstanding helps you to realise that, quite to the contrary, you do not have limits, and you can decide to be the solution:
To understand means to know; “I don’t understand” means “I don’t know”.
If it doesn’t add up, you’re missing something. Simple as that.
In order to understand, one has to know; in order to know, one has to search, then discover, then verify, then learn, then confront.
Let this information in your hands be a starting point rather than an arrival point.
Never be the same again, and nobody ever be neither torturer nor victim again.